Queer\u2019in bayrak ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu iddia eden bi kitle var. Ve her nas\u0131lsa hi\u00e7bir i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmeden bi\u00e7imlerin etraf\u0131nda dolan\u0131yorlar. Bi\u00e7imler, y\u00fczeyler iyidir. Ama o y\u00fczeyler her an bizi i\u00e7eri\u011fe do\u011fru da y\u00f6nlendirir, geli\u015ftirir. Bi\u00e7imler bize o \u015fey i\u015fte \u201cne bi\u00e7im?\u201d sorusunu sordurtur. Bu sorular zaten i\u00e7eri\u011fin kendisidir. Ama anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey bu basit \u201cne bi\u00e7im\u201d sorusuna bile varamadan \u00e7eli\u015fkiye d\u00fc\u015fenlerle ilgili. Mesela co\u015fan drag k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc i\u00e7inde beni tatmin eden hi\u00e7 bi karakter yok. Niye herkes celebrity bi kad\u0131n\u0131n drag\u2019\u0131 oluyo, ya da \u00fcnl\u00fc bi \u015fark\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n? Mahalleli, k\u00f6yl\u00fc kad\u0131n\u0131n ya da site y\u00f6neticisi memur kad\u0131n\u0131n drag\u2019\u0131 olunmaz m\u0131? Yoksa o tip para m\u0131 etmiyor? Niye kimli\u011fini alt \u00fcst etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz o karakterler hep bat\u0131l\u0131, \u00fcnl\u00fc ya da sahnedekiler, merkezdekiler? Belki de alt \u00fcst etti\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz her \u015feyi yeniden \u00fcretiyoruz? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte bu durum bahsetti\u011fim queer\u2019in bayrak ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olay\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7eli\u015fkisi. O bayra\u011f\u0131 eline ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda temsil etti\u011fi her \u015feyin sonunu da getiriyorsun, olay bi sa\u00e7mal\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Ama bunu yapana desen ki \u201csa\u00e7malad\u0131n\u201d. Sana diyecek ki: \u201cne var yani sa\u00e7malama \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm var benim, buna hakk\u0131m var benim, ben, benim, bedenim benim, ben vs. Bu aralar ne \u00e7ok ben var. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bence bu iddialar tembelli\u011fin, kolayc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve her \u015feyi h\u0131zla t\u00fcketmenin mazereti. Biraz da i\u015fte o \u00e7ok kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda oldu\u011funu zannetti\u011fimiz g\u00fcce benzeme durumunun ta kendisi. Sen sa\u00e7malamaya hakk\u0131m var dedi\u011fin an birileri de seni susturmaya hakk\u0131m var diyebilir. Yani iki ayri de\u011ferde ama hala ayn\u0131 d\u00fczlemde o ayn\u0131 \u015feyi \u00fcretme tehlikesine d\u00fc\u015febiliriz. Peki o \u015fey ne? \u0130dealize ettigimiz bi durum mu? Bir an m\u0131, de\u011fer mi ya da birisi mi? (Bu c\u00fcmle Edis alb\u00fcm\u00fc oldu)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bence samimiyet t\u00fcm bu \u00e7eli\u015fkide en unutulan \u015fey. S\u00f6zle eylemin \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fmesi yani. Ama gel g\u00f6r ki elimizde bir samimiyet \u00f6l\u00e7er insta filtresi yok maalesef. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Peki buraya nerden geldim? Sevgili arkada\u015f\u0131m \u0130bo “ya ge\u00e7en power bottom bi arkada\u015f\u0131m \u015fu instagram \u015feysinden yapm\u0131\u015f, -what kind of gay- sorusunda – mostly top -\u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f dedi. Ordan geldim. Biraz da bu durumla \u00f6v\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f herhalde \u00e7ocuk. B\u00f6yle mesela tam \u201csen busun\u201d diye bitti\u011finde instagram filter\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun surat\u0131na ma\u011frur bi ifade inmi\u015f. 1 saniye ama, belki de 2. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Benim de sadece instadan tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bi arkada\u015f var, 50 kilo, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc \u015firin \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 mesela. Y\u00fcz\u00fcne b\u00f6yle “h\u0131mmm vay be” diyen bir duygu d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc ve mutluydu Insta’da. Burada g\u00fcc\u00fc bedenle \u00f6l\u00e7m\u00fcyorum tabi. Olay istenen o \u015fey olma haline vuruldu\u011fumuz, y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc yalandan de\u011fi\u015ftiren o 1 ya da 2 saniye. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ben mesela\u00a0insta\u00a0\u015firinler\u00a0\u015feyini\u00a013 kere falan\u00a0yapt\u0131m,\u00a0s\u00fcsl\u00fc\u00a0\u00a0\u015firin\u00a0\u00e7\u0131kmak\u00a0icin \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0en\u00a0sevdi\u011fim\u00a0\u015firin\u00a0o-ydu. O da\u00a0geydi.\u00a0Aynas\u0131yla\u00a0ve kendiyle\u00a0ya\u015f\u0131yordu. S\u00fcsl\u00fc’n\u00fcn\u00a0temsil\u00a0etti\u011fi\u00a0\u00a0\u015fey\u00a0ba\u015fka\u00a0tabi. Ama benim\u00a0s\u00fcsl\u00fcye\u00a0benzemek\u00a0icin\u00a0harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u00a010\u00a0dakkan\u0131n anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey\u00a0bamba\u015fka.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00d6zetle, sosyal reel d\u00fcnyadan bu insta \u201csen nesin sen kimsin oyununa\u201d inerken ve ordan tekrar d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karken bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi ya i\u00e7erde ya da d\u0131\u015farda b\u0131rak\u0131yoruz. S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc etti\u011fimiz \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck aray\u0131\u015f\u0131yla eylemlerimiz asla \u00f6rt\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcyor. Hangi \u015firinsin \u015feyi biterken \u201cbu \u015firinsin\u201d an\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze d\u00fc\u015fen ifade hi\u00e7 \u015firin de\u011fil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya do\u011fru b\u00fcz\u00fclen dudaklar, yukar\u0131ya do\u011fru g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen yanaklar, \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f gibi yapan kulaklar… Hepsi ama hepsi ma\u011frur ve mutlular. Ama samimiyetsiz ve \u00e7ok g\u0131c\u0131klar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hepsi olmak istenen, yap\u0131lmak istenen ama olunamayan ya da k\u0131smen olunan o y\u00f6ne do\u011fru ilerliyorlar. Tek bi y\u00f6n var yani. Tek Y\u00f6n.
Bence Taksim\u2019deki o mabed Tek Y\u00f6n bile bahsini etti\u011fim ve k\u0131smen dahil oldu\u011fum bu bayrak ta\u015f\u0131yan kalabal\u0131ktan daha \u00e7ok y\u00f6n. Orda biraz daha \u00e7e\u015fitli ve renkli bi kalabal\u0131k var sanki. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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*bu yaz\u0131da pe\u015fine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fey bi duyguydu. Insta’da beliren o duygu sosyal varolu\u015fumuzu da yer yer \u00f6zetliyor hissine kap\u0131ld\u0131m. Yoksa amac\u0131m internet k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr demek de\u011fil. Insta g\u00fczel biri bence. <\/em> Queer\u2019in bayrak ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funu iddia eden bi kitle var. Ve her nas\u0131lsa hi\u00e7bir i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmeden bi\u00e7imlerin etraf\u0131nda dolan\u0131yorlar. Bi\u00e7imler, y\u00fczeyler iyidir. Ama o y\u00fczeyler her an bizi i\u00e7eri\u011fe do\u011fru da y\u00f6nlendirir, geli\u015ftirir. Bi\u00e7imler bize o \u015fey i\u015fte \u201cne bi\u00e7im?\u201d sorusunu sordurtur. Bu sorular zaten i\u00e7eri\u011fin kendisidir. Ama anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey bu basit \u201cne bi\u00e7im\u201d sorusuna bile varamadan \u00e7eli\u015fkiye d\u00fc\u015fenlerle ilgili. Mesela co\u015fan drag k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc i\u00e7inde beni tatmin eden hi\u00e7 bi karakter yok. Niye herkes celebrity bi kad\u0131n\u0131n drag\u2019\u0131 oluyo, ya da \u00fcnl\u00fc bi \u015fark\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n? Mahalleli, k\u00f6yl\u00fc kad\u0131n\u0131n ya da site y\u00f6neticisi memur kad\u0131n\u0131n drag\u2019\u0131 olunmaz m\u0131? Yoksa o tip para m\u0131 etmiyor? Niye kimli\u011fini alt \u00fcst etti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz o karakterler hep bat\u0131l\u0131, \u00fcnl\u00fc ya da sahnedekiler, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":41549,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3804,7560],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-48752","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-kose-yazilari","category-recep-ozdas"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48752"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48752\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48754,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48752\/revisions\/48754"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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