{"id":47467,"date":"2019-07-08T12:19:11","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T09:19:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gzone.com.tr\/?p=47467"},"modified":"2019-07-08T12:19:21","modified_gmt":"2019-07-08T09:19:21","slug":"diyanet-isleri-baskaninin-aciklamasindan-sonra-lgbtilara-yonelik-siddet-artabilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/2019\/07\/08\/diyanet-isleri-baskaninin-aciklamasindan-sonra-lgbtilara-yonelik-siddet-artabilir\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u0130YANET \u0130\u015eLER\u0130 BA\u015eKANI&#8217;NIN A\u00c7IKLAMASINDAN SONRA LGBT\u0130+&#8217;LARA Y\u00d6NEL\u0130K \u015e\u0130DDET ARTAB\u0130L\u0130R"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>soL haber portali&#8217;ne konu\u015fan bir LGBT annesi Neval \u00c7i\u00e7ek, Diyanet&#8217;in a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok tehlikeli buldu\u011funu belirterek &#8216;gericili\u011fin nas\u0131l bir etkisi oldu\u011funu bizzat ya\u015fam\u0131mdan \u00f6\u011frendim&#8217; diyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>LGBT Aileleri ve Yak\u0131nlar\u0131 Grubu\u2019nda yer alm\u0131\u015f olan Neval \u00c7i\u00e7ek ile Diyanet\u2019in \u201csapk\u0131nl\u0131k\u201d a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015ftuk. \u00c7i\u00e7ek, \u201cGerici zihniyetin bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na nak\u015fetti\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretiler\u201d ve \u201cdo\u011fru bildi\u011fi yanl\u0131\u015flar\u201d\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini ve nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Ali Erba\u015f, Konya\u2019da bir otelde d\u00fczenlenen \u201c\u0130slam\u2019a Kar\u015f\u0131 K\u00fcresel Meydan Okumalar Ba\u011flam\u0131nda Yeni Stratejiler\u201d adl\u0131 konferansta, LGBT\u2019lere y\u00f6nelik \u201cf\u0131trata, yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015fa ayr\u0131 sapk\u0131nl\u0131k\u201d tan\u0131mlamas\u0131n\u0131 kulland\u0131, \u201ccinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi gibi sloganlar\u201d ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda sapk\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131n g\u00fcndeme getirildi\u011fini, yaygara yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Diyanet\u2019in kendi dayatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 dinsel ya\u015fam\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalanlara y\u00f6nelik d\u0131\u015flay\u0131c\u0131, lanetleyici a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131 yeni de\u011fil. Birka\u00e7 ay \u00f6nce yine \u201cpatolojik, helak edici b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnah\u201d s\u00f6zleriyle LGBT\u2019ler hedef g\u00f6sterilmi\u015fti. A\u00e7\u0131klamaya pek \u00e7ok kesimden tepki geldi, LGBT aileleri de yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 hedef alan bu s\u00f6zlerin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda durdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"330\" src=\"http:\/\/gzone.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/ali-erbas-diyanet.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-47442\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/ali-erbas-diyanet.jpg 660w, http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/ali-erbas-diyanet-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><figcaption>Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Ali Erba\u015f<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Alt\u0131 y\u0131l LGBT Aileleri ve Yak\u0131nlar\u0131 Grubu L\u0130STAG\u2019da aktivistlik yapm\u0131\u015f olan LGBT annesi Neval \u00c7i\u00e7ek de a\u00e7\u0131klamaya tepki g\u00f6sterenlerden. Memur emeklisi olan Neval Han\u0131m ge\u00e7en y\u0131l sa\u011fl\u0131k problemleri nedeniyle L\u0130STAG\u2019dan ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. Kendisiyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede a\u00e7\u0131klamay\u0131 \u00e7ok tehlikeli buldu\u011funu ifade eden Neval Han\u0131m, \u201cgericili\u011fin nas\u0131l bir etkisi oldu\u011funu bizzat ya\u015fam\u0131mdan \u00f6\u011frendim\u201d diyor. Diyanetin bu tutumu nedeniyle LGBT\u2019lerin daha fazla nefret sald\u0131r\u0131s\u0131na maruz kalabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Diyanet \u0130\u015fleri Ba\u015fkan\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n LGBT&#8217;leri &#8220;yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015fa ayk\u0131r\u0131 sapk\u0131nl\u0131k&#8221;la e\u015fle\u015ftiren, su\u00e7layan a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 \u00e7ok tepki \u00e7ekti. Bir LGBT annesi olarak siz bu a\u00e7\u0131klamay\u0131 duyunca nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcrperdim. \u00c7o\u011funlu\u011fu muhafazak\u00e2r olan bir toplumda, etki g\u00fcc\u00fc y\u00fcksek olan bir din adam\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6ylesine bilimsellikten uzak, b\u00f6ylesine bilime ayk\u0131r\u0131 bir ifadeyle a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmas\u0131 endi\u015fe verici ve \u00e7ok tehlikeli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8216;E\u015eC\u0130NSELL\u0130\u011e\u0130N TERC\u0130H OLMADI\u011eINI, BU \u00c7OCUKLARIN B\u00d6YLE DO\u011eDUKLARINI \u00d6\u011eREND\u0130M&#8217;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Diyanet, sadece a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131yla de\u011fil y\u00fcr\u00fctme \u00fczerinden toplumsal hayat\u0131 etkileyen d\u00fczenlemeleriyle de cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fini kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na al\u0131yor. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n namus ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda cinayetlerle \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve LGBT&#8217;lerin cinayete varan nefret sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131na maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00fcstelik bunun her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn artt\u0131\u011f\u0131, daha \u00e7ok can yakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00fclkedeyiz.&nbsp;Sizce Diyanet&#8217;inki gibi tutum ve eylemler bu sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131yor mu? Ya\u015fanan olaylarda gericili\u011fin nas\u0131l bir rol\u00fc var?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dclke olarak trans cinayetlerinde zaten ilk s\u0131rada yer al\u0131yoruz. Ben e\u015fcinsel annesiyim. Bug\u00fcn bunu rahatl\u0131kla s\u00f6yleyebiliyorum; ama y\u0131llar \u00f6nce b\u00f6yle de\u011fildim. LGBT\u0130\u2019lerin de e\u015fit haklara sahip olmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsem de, bilinmeyene kar\u015f\u0131 duyulan korku ve b\u00f6yle yanl\u0131\u015f s\u00f6ylem ve \u00f6\u011fretilerle, gizli homofobikmi\u015fim haberim yokmu\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gericili\u011fin nas\u0131l bir etkisi oldu\u011funu bizzat ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frendim. Alt\u0131 sene \u00f6nce k\u0131z\u0131m e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011finde beynimden vurulmu\u015fa d\u00f6nd\u00fcm, \u015foka girdim. Kabullenemedim, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc muhafazak\u00e2r bir toplumda, muhafazak\u00e2r ve bask\u0131c\u0131 bir ailede b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Do\u011fru bildi\u011fim yanl\u0131\u015flar kabullenmemi engelliyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcstelik kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda koca bir &#8220;elalem&#8221; ter\u00f6r\u00fc vard\u0131. Saniyeler i\u00e7inde k\u0131z\u0131ma duydu\u011fum sevgi nefret ile yer de\u011fi\u015ftirmi\u015fti. Nas\u0131l b\u00f6yle bir tercih yapabilirdi? Ya da onu yeti\u015ftirirken ben nerede yanl\u0131\u015f yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m? Binlerce soru soruyor, ancak cevab\u0131n\u0131 bulam\u0131yordum. Bu konuda uzman psikiyatristlerce destek ve bilgilendirme toplant\u0131lar\u0131 yapan bir dernek sayesinde; D\u00fcnya Sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc taraf\u0131ndan e\u015fcinselli\u011fin tercih olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir hastal\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir varolu\u015f bi\u00e7imi oldu\u011funu, bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n b\u00f6yle do\u011fduklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim. Bilimsel terim ve kavramlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayarak anlatt\u0131klar\u0131nda, ne k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n ne de benim bir yanl\u0131\u015f yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, bu k\u00f6t\u00fc duygular\u0131m\u0131n bana \u00f6\u011fretilen do\u011fru bildi\u011fim yanl\u0131\u015flardan, yani gerici zihniyetin bilin\u00e7alt\u0131ma nak\u015fetti\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretilerden kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oysa bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00f6\u011frenmeden \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011fum ne ise \u015fimdi de o idi. Yanl\u0131\u015f olan, bana d\u00fcnyay\u0131 zindan eden yaln\u0131zca benim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimdi. Diyanetin bu tutum ve eylemleri nedeniyle zaten var olma ve ya\u015fama hakk\u0131 i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele eden LGBT\u0130\u2019ler, hem aileleri hem de toplum taraf\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ok nefret sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131na\u00a0ve nefret cinayetlerine maruz kalacaklard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>R\u00f6portaj\u0131n tamam\u0131<\/em> <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/haber.sol.org.tr\/turkiye\/diyanet-aciklamasindan-sonra-lgbtler-daha-cok-nefret-saldirisina-ugrayabilir-266011\">burada <\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>soL haber portali&#8217;ne konu\u015fan bir LGBT annesi Neval \u00c7i\u00e7ek, Diyanet&#8217;in a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok tehlikeli buldu\u011funu belirterek &#8216;gericili\u011fin nas\u0131l bir etkisi oldu\u011funu bizzat ya\u015fam\u0131mdan \u00f6\u011frendim&#8217; diyor. LGBT Aileleri ve Yak\u0131nlar\u0131 Grubu\u2019nda yer alm\u0131\u015f olan Neval \u00c7i\u00e7ek ile Diyanet\u2019in \u201csapk\u0131nl\u0131k\u201d a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015ftuk. \u00c7i\u00e7ek, \u201cGerici zihniyetin bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na nak\u015fetti\u011fi \u00f6\u011fretiler\u201d ve \u201cdo\u011fru bildi\u011fi yanl\u0131\u015flar\u201d\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini ve nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14303,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91,96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-haberler","category-turkiye"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47467"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47467\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47468,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47467\/revisions\/47468"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}