{"id":46280,"date":"2019-01-28T15:46:36","date_gmt":"2019-01-28T12:46:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gzone.com.tr\/?p=46280"},"modified":"2019-01-28T15:52:41","modified_gmt":"2019-01-28T12:52:41","slug":"ferdi-ozbegen-hayat-arkadasina-mirasini-birakmak-icin-onu-evlat-edinmisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/2019\/01\/28\/ferdi-ozbegen-hayat-arkadasina-mirasini-birakmak-icin-onu-evlat-edinmisti\/","title":{"rendered":"FERD\u0130 \u00d6ZBE\u011eEN, ERKEK SEVG\u0130L\u0130S\u0130NE M\u0130RASINI BIRAKMAK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N ONU EVLAT ED\u0130NM\u0130\u015eT\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Gazeteci Oray E\u011fin, 70’li 80’li y\u0131llar\u0131n en sevilen \u015fark\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131ndan Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen’in erkek hayat arkada\u015f\u0131na miras\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakabilmek i\u00e7in onu evlat edindi\u011fini yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f6zc\u00fc yazar\u0131 Oray E\u011fin<\/strong>, Temmuz 2015’teki yaz\u0131s\u0131nda, 28 Ocak 2013’te ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 yitiren sanat\u00e7\u0131 Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen<\/strong>‘in hayat\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Hilmi Mutlu<\/strong>‘yu evlat edindi\u011fini \u00f6ne s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Yasalar izin vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in resmen birlikte olmayan bir\u00e7ok e\u015fcinselin ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu y\u00f6ntemin evlat edinme oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen E\u011fin, yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 “Bunca y\u0131ld\u0131r bu kanunun ge\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edenlerin e\u015fitlik arzusu pratik nedenlere de dayan\u0131yor. Kar\u0131-kocaya tan\u0131nan sosyal sigorta, miras hakk\u0131na, vergi indirimine sahip olmak gibi” diye sonland\u0131r\u0131yor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oray E\u011fin’in “T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin ilk e\u015fcinsel evlili\u011fi beyaz piyanonun arkas\u0131nda ya\u015fand\u0131” ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yay\u0131mlanan 05 Temmuz 2015 yaz\u0131s\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen\u2019in vasiyetini be\u011fenmeyen Hilmi Mutlu<\/strong> (\u00d6zbe\u011fen) hakk\u0131n\u0131 istiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Benim ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131m ve benden \u00f6ncekiler i\u00e7in e\u015fcinsel evlili\u011finin hep tahayy\u00fcl edilemez bir kavram oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Bir erke\u011fin sevdi\u011fi bir erkekle, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n sevdi\u011fi bir kad\u0131nla evlenebilme ihtimalinin kimi \u00fclkelerde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 2000\u2019lerin ba\u015f\u0131ndan beri de neden b\u00f6yle bir ihtiya\u00e7 duyuldu\u011funu da anlamakta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7ekerdim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

LGBT hareketi sadece cinsellik olarak de\u011fil, yerle\u015fik d\u00fczenin b\u00fct\u00fcn kal\u0131plar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karak geli\u015fmi\u015fti. Evlilik ise bu toplumun en ilkel, en dayatmac\u0131, en s\u0131radan kurumlar\u0131ndan biriydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ku\u015fkusuz, toplum gibi ben de evrildim. Meselenin sadece y\u00fcz\u00fck takmaktan ibaret olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlad\u0131m. Oysa bunu bizlerden \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nce hayal etmi\u015f, hatta yasaklara ra\u011fmen kendi y\u00f6ntemini bulmu\u015f eski ku\u015faklar vard\u0131. Ke\u015fke, ge\u00e7en cuma g\u00fcnk\u00fc Amerikan Y\u00fcksek Mahkemesi\u2019nin evlilik e\u015fitli\u011fini tarihi bir hak olarak tan\u0131yan karar\u0131na tan\u0131kl\u0131k edebilselerdi.
Ke\u015fke Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen h\u00e2l\u00e2 aram\u0131zda olsayd\u0131.
Gen\u00e7li\u011finde \u00e7ektirdi\u011fi foto\u011fraflarla pek \u00e7ok gen\u00e7 erke\u011fin y\u00fcre\u011fini hoplatan beyaz piyanonun ard\u0131ndaki efsaneyle hayat\u0131n\u0131n son y\u0131llar\u0131nda s\u0131k s\u0131k telefonda konu\u015fma imkan\u0131m olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen hayat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 evlat edinerek yasan\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan faydaland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uzun sohbetlerde an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r, a\u015fklardan bahsederdi. Hayat\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Hilmi Mutlu\u2019yu 1999\u2019da evlat edinmi\u015fti. Hen\u00fcz e\u015fcinsel evlili\u011fini kanunen tan\u0131yan bir \u00fclke yoktu d\u00fcnyada, kavram bile pek \u00e7oklar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ok yeniydi. D\u00f6nemin H\u00fcrriyet gazetesinde \u015f\u00f6yle bir ifade yer al\u0131yor: \u201c\u0130ki e\u015fcinselin ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 konu alan \u2019\u00c7\u0131lg\u0131nlar Kul\u00fcb\u00fc\u2019 benzetmesine\u2026\u201d
Uzun bir \u2019Yok can\u0131m ne alakas\u0131 var, kanuni hakk\u0131m bu benim\u2019 a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan \u201cBenim ya\u015fam \u015feklimle bu olay\u0131n hi\u00e7 bir ilgisi yok\u201d c\u00fcmlesi de \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor a\u011fz\u0131ndan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen\u2019i sahnede son izledi\u011fimde Liberace\u2019nin Las Vegas\u2019taki \u015fimdi m\u00fcze olan evinde sat\u0131lan bro\u015flardan birini tak\u0131yordu. Hilmi\u2019yle ili\u015fkisi de t\u0131pk\u0131 \u201cBehind The Candelabra\u201d filmine de konu olan Liberace<\/strong>\u2019nin sevgilisi Scott Thornson<\/strong>\u2019\u0131 and\u0131r\u0131yordu. Bas\u0131n\u0131n bask\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131ndan savmak i\u00e7in Liberace 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Scott\u2019\u0131 evlat edinme giri\u015fiminde bulundu, ama devam\u0131 gelmedi. Aralar\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131 48\u2019di. Las Vegas\u2019\u0131n \u015famdanl\u0131 piyanisti gen\u00e7 sevgilisini estetik ameliyatlarla kendisine benzemesini bile sa\u011flad\u0131.1986 y\u0131l\u0131nda Thorson ABD tarihinin ilk gay nafaka davas\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131 ama 95 bin dolara mahkeme d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda uzla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131. Tabii ki, Liberace kamuoyu \u00f6n\u00fcnde hi\u00e7bir zaman e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu ya da Thorson\u2019la \u2019kar\u0131 koca ili\u015fkisi\u2019 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itiraf etmedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen & Hilmi Mutlu<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen asl\u0131nda Liberace\u2019nin bile yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131. Hayat\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi insanla yasalar izin vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in resmen birlikte olmayan nice e\u015fcinselin ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu y\u00f6ntem evlat edinmeydi. Recep Tayyip Erdo\u011fan<\/strong> bir keresinde \u201cT\u00fcz\u00fcklerle sava\u015farak geldik\u201d demi\u015fti ya, i\u015fte binlerce e\u015fcinselin ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu oyuncakl\u0131 y\u00f6ntem de buydu; yasaklara nanik yapmakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\u015fcinsel evlili\u011fi bir \u00f6mr\u00fc beraber ya\u015fama vaadinden, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gecesi \u00e7al\u0131nan N\u00fckhet Duru<\/strong>\u015fark\u0131lar\u0131ndan ya da en g\u00fczel damatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 giymekten ibaret de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bunca y\u0131ld\u0131r bu kanunun ge\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edenlerin e\u015fitlik arzusu pratik nedenlere de dayan\u0131yor. Kar\u0131-kocaya tan\u0131nan sosyal sigorta, miras hakk\u0131na, vergi indirimine sahip olmak gibi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen vak\u2019as\u0131nda ise her \u015fey g\u00fcll\u00fck g\u00fclistanl\u0131k de\u011fil. Sanat\u00e7\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn malvarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 T\u00fcrk E\u011fitim Vakf\u0131\u2019na ba\u011f\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in Hilmi Mutlu (\u00d6zbe\u011fen) vasiyetin iptali davas\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131. G\u00f6r\u00fcyorsunuz, evlili\u011fin baz\u0131 taraflar\u0131 herkes i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 i\u015fliyor.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Oray E\u011fin<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n kaleme al\u0131nmas\u0131ndan yakla\u015f\u0131k 3,5 y\u0131l sonraki durum ise \u015f\u00f6yle:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Miras nedeniyle bir d\u00f6nem \u00d6zbe\u011fen\u2019in akrabalar\u0131yla mahkemelik olan ve a\u00e7\u0131lan davalar\u0131 kazanan Mutlu, \u00d6zbe\u011fen\u2019in an\u0131lar\u0131yla dolu evi istedi\u011fi \u00fccreti verene satacak. Muazzez Ersoy\u2019un villas\u0131n\u0131n hemen yan\u0131nda bulunan ve Torba Koyu\u2019nu g\u00f6ren ev i\u00e7in istenen para ise 300 bin Euro olarak a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gazeteci Oray E\u011fin, 70’li 80’li y\u0131llar\u0131n en sevilen \u015fark\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131ndan Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen’in erkek hayat arkada\u015f\u0131na miras\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakabilmek i\u00e7in onu evlat edindi\u011fini yazd\u0131. S\u00f6zc\u00fc yazar\u0131 Oray E\u011fin, Temmuz 2015’teki yaz\u0131s\u0131nda, 28 Ocak 2013’te ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 yitiren sanat\u00e7\u0131 Ferdi \u00d6zbe\u011fen‘in hayat\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Hilmi Mutlu‘yu evlat edindi\u011fini \u00f6ne s\u00fcrd\u00fc. Yasalar izin vermedi\u011fi i\u00e7in resmen birlikte olmayan bir\u00e7ok e\u015fcinselin ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu y\u00f6ntemin evlat edinme oldu\u011funu …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":46282,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[720,39,28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46280","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-escinselyasam","category-muzik","category-pop"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46280","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46280"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46280\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46286,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46280\/revisions\/46286"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/46282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}