{"id":37635,"date":"2017-01-11T11:40:51","date_gmt":"2017-01-11T08:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gzone.com.tr\/?p=37635"},"modified":"2017-01-11T11:40:51","modified_gmt":"2017-01-11T08:40:51","slug":"nil-ozalp-yazdi-yeni-yil-yeni-kararlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/2017\/01\/11\/nil-ozalp-yazdi-yeni-yil-yeni-kararlar\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u0130L \u00d6ZALP YAZDI: YEN\u0130 YIL, YEN\u0130 KARARLAR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Nil \u00d6zalp, 2017 i\u00e7in hayat\u0131yla ilgili ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemli kararlar\u0131 yazd\u0131. \u0130\u015fte bu e\u011flenceli yaz\u0131:<\/em><br \/>\nHer pazartesi, her ay ba\u015f\u0131, her bir \u015fey ba\u015f\u0131, kendi kendimize ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kararlar var, uygula ya da uygulama.<br \/>\nAma en k\u00f6t\u00fc karar karars\u0131zl\u0131ktan iyiymi\u015f \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte benim 2017 kararlar\u0131m:<br \/>\n1- Yeni y\u0131la girerken bana kendimi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettiren,de\u011fersiz hissettiren t\u00fcm insanlar\u0131 bir bir elekten ge\u00e7irip, \u00a0 hi\u00e7 k\u0131zmadan \u00f6fkelenmeden hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m.<br \/>\nBunlar\u0131 nas\u0131l m\u0131 yap\u0131yorlar ?<br \/>\nHayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u00f6nem verdi\u011finiz hi\u00e7bir\u015feye \u00f6nem vermeyerek, bencilce enerjinizden duygular\u0131n\u0131zdan beslenerek, sizi kullanarak, ne iyi g\u00fcn ne k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn bilmeyerek can\u0131m\u0131 ac\u0131tanlar, yan\u0131mda olmayanlar haydi size bye.<br \/>\n\u0130nan\u0131n yokluklar\u0131na al\u0131\u015fmak varl\u0131klar\u0131 ile u\u011fra\u015fmaktan daha kolay.<br \/>\n2-S\u00fcrekli insanlar\u0131 yarg\u0131lamayaca\u011f\u0131m<br \/>\nKimseyi d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m deyip,durmaks\u0131z\u0131n yarg\u0131 i\u00e7indeysem, her bozukluk g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm ki\u015fiyi d\u00fczeltece\u011fim diye inat edip kedimi bozuyorsam ve bu \u00e7enemi tutamay\u0131p oflaya poflaya ay bu da b\u00f6yle bir insan ama g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum i\u015fte dediklerimi hooop hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m.<br \/>\nAz konu\u015fuyorum art\u0131k, sinirlenmiyorum ku\u015f gibiyim, \u00e7enem dinlendi. Kendi akl\u0131m\u0131 kendime saklar\u0131m bencilce ama az yorucu. Bir de ben kimim de yarg\u0131l\u0131yorum. Yarg\u0131l\u0131yorsam bana uymuyorsa, hadi bye.<\/p>\n<p>3-Bu Yeni y\u0131l beni kim sevecek, bu sene yeni y\u0131l kim mesaj atacak, kim bana hediye alacak, acaba az m\u0131 seviliyorum diye kuraca\u011f\u0131ma;k\u0131yd\u0131m paraya ald\u0131m o \u00e7antay\u0131 kendime yeni y\u0131l hediyesi.<br \/>\n&#8220;Seviyorum k\u0131z Nil seni&#8221; dedim.<br \/>\n&#8220;Biz bize yeteriz, arkanda ben var\u0131m hi\u00e7 korkma bu y\u0131l&#8221; dedim.<br \/>\n&#8220;G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve g\u00fcvende hissetmek i\u00e7in kimseye ihtiyac\u0131n yok&#8221; dedim.<\/p>\n<p>4-Hep k\u00f6t\u00fcler mi ?<br \/>\nDostlar\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131m, beni her daim beni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ,\u00fcst\u00fcne kal\u0131n bir \u015fey al \u00fc\u015f\u00fcme diyeninden tutta ben yan\u0131nday\u0131m diyenine kadar.<br \/>\nseviyorum onlar\u0131.Bu y\u0131l onlar\u0131 daha da \u00e7ok sevmeye karar verdim.bunu daha da g\u00f6stermeye.<\/p>\n<p>5- \u00dclkemin ve d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi bu kriz d\u00f6neminde \u00f6fke, korku duygular\u0131na yenilip evde t\u0131rnaklar\u0131m\u0131 yemektense, bu zaman diliminde, bu \u00fclkede do\u011fmam\u0131n bir sebebi var;acaba d\u0131\u015far\u0131da olanlar ruhumun hangi karanl\u0131k taraf\u0131n\u0131 besliyor diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm fark\u0131ndaysam e\u011fer olan bitenin, o taraf\u0131 beslememeye karar verdim.<\/p>\n<p>5-Somon dna yapt\u0131rmaya karar verdim.Bak simdi,o kadar ciddi ruhsal konu \u00fczerine .ne yapay\u0131m yapt\u0131rcam i\u011fneden korka korka yapt\u0131rcam.bak\u0131m\u0131y\u0131m m\u0131 kendime.<\/p>\n<p>6-Spor yapaca\u011f\u0131m. \u0130\u00e7 sesim b\u00fcy\u00fck yalan diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Yapaca\u011f\u0131m sus, kar\u0131\u015fma sen bana. Yogaya ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m. Bak g\u00f6r yap\u0131cam.<\/p>\n<p>Yani yine i\u015fin \u00f6z\u00fcne bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayat b\u00f6yle i\u015fte&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Seni mutlu edenlerle ol, seni mutlu edenleri mutlu et, sevgini g\u00f6stermekten korkma, g\u00f6sterdik\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fcr sevgi, seni haketmeyenleri alan\u0131nda besleme, \u00f6nce kendini ger\u00e7ekten sev, be\u011fen ve kendine g\u00fcven. Kendine iyi bak&#8230;.<br \/>\nMutlu bir 2017 ge\u00e7ir!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nil \u00d6zalp, 2017 i\u00e7in hayat\u0131yla ilgili ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nemli kararlar\u0131 yazd\u0131. \u0130\u015fte bu e\u011flenceli yaz\u0131: Her pazartesi, her ay ba\u015f\u0131, her bir \u015fey ba\u015f\u0131, kendi kendimize ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kararlar var, uygula ya da uygulama. Ama en k\u00f6t\u00fc karar karars\u0131zl\u0131ktan iyiymi\u015f \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi? \u0130\u015fte benim 2017 kararlar\u0131m: 1- Yeni y\u0131la girerken bana kendimi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettiren,de\u011fersiz hissettiren t\u00fcm &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":37639,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3804,4052],"tags":[1619,225,1140],"class_list":["post-37635","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-kose-yazilari","category-nil-ozalp","tag-kose-yazilari","tag-nil-ozalp","tag-yeni-yil"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37635"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37635\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37640,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37635\/revisions\/37640"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}