{"id":35429,"date":"2016-11-14T17:39:15","date_gmt":"2016-11-14T14:39:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gzone.com.tr\/?p=35429"},"modified":"2016-11-14T17:39:15","modified_gmt":"2016-11-14T14:39:15","slug":"arkadasinizin-escinsel-oldugundan-supheleniyorsaniz-ne-yapmalisiniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/2016\/11\/14\/arkadasinizin-escinsel-oldugundan-supheleniyorsaniz-ne-yapmalisiniz\/","title":{"rendered":"ARKADA\u015eINIZIN E\u015eC\u0130NSEL OLDU\u011eUNDAN \u015e\u00dcPHELEN\u0130YORSANIZ NE YAPMALISINIZ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u0130\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, mahalle arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ya da \u00e7ocukluk arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z&#8230; Onun e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcpheleniyorsan\u0131z ne yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer \u00e7evrenizde e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcphelendi\u011finiz arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z varsa bu \u00f6nerilerimizi mutlaka dikkate al\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6nce LGBT bireyler hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinin, zihninizi a\u00e7\u0131n&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>LGBT bireylerle ilgili \u00f6n yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z olabilir. &#8220;Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcpheleniyorsan\u0131z&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015funa atmad\u0131k. Sizin gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve \u00f6n yarg\u0131s\u0131 olabilecek ki\u015fileri avlamak istedik \ud83d\ude42 Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131ndaki \u015f\u00fcphelerinizi bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine bir kenara koyarak, ana ak\u0131mda size dayat\u0131lan karikat\u00fcrize e\u015fcinsel tiplemelerini akl\u0131n\u0131zdan silmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p, hem d\u00fcnya hem de T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de ya\u015fayan LGBT bireyler hakk\u0131nda mutlaka bilgi edinin. Bunun i\u00e7in hem GZone&#8217;dan hem de LGBT derneklerinin haber, k\u00fclt\u00fcr sayfalar\u0131ndan faydalanabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/i.onionstatic.com\/onion\/1739\/0\/16x9\/1200.jpg\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Onu mah\u00e7up etmeyin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcphelendi\u011finiz bu isim belki de yak\u0131n bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ve size a\u00e7\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131 bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc hazmedemiyorsunuz. Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fit sevimli tuzaklarla (LGBT i\u00e7erikli foto\u011fraflar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler, g\u00f6kku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rselleri vb) ona asl\u0131nda bu konuda ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k fikirli oldu\u011funuzu belirtmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n\u0131z diyelim. Yapmay\u0131n! Bu \u00e7abalar onu mah\u00e7up etmekten ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe yaramaz. Ki\u015finin arkada\u015flar\u0131na ve \u00e7evresine a\u00e7\u0131labilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikle cinsel y\u00f6nelimini kendisinin kabul etmi\u015f olmas\u0131 ve bununla bar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir. Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hen\u00fcz o evreleri ge\u00e7emedi\u011fini hesaba katarak ona kar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in onu zorlamay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0131rf kendi \u015f\u00fcphelerinizi giderebilmek ve rahatlayabilmek i\u00e7in bu arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 cinsel y\u00f6nelimini a\u00e7\u0131klamaya zorlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Bu a\u00e7\u0131klama, o haz\u0131r oldu\u011fu zaman zaten do\u011fal olarak size gelecektir. E\u011fer onu buna zorlarsan\u0131z arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bozulmas\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6ze al\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/-DVl4unxTjo\/maxresdefault.jpg\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ailesiyle bu konuyu konu\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130yi niyetle de olabilir ancak yine de bu konuyu, e\u011fer onlar\u0131 tan\u0131yorsan\u0131z, ailesi ile kesinlikle konu\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. LGBT bireylerin ailelerine a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131 hassas bir konudur. \u00d6zellikle \u00fclkemizde pek \u00e7ok LGBT birey t\u00fcm arkada\u015f ve sosyal \u00e7evresine a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fu halde ailelerine a\u00e7\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f olabilir. Mutlaka bir bildikleri vard\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden aile konusuna asla girmeyin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla bu konunun dedikodusunu yapmay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u00fcphelerinizde hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu kan\u0131tlamak ve onay almak i\u00e7in bu arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda ASLA ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla konu\u015fup bilgi toplamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. \u0130yi niyetle de olsa, &#8220;sence o e\u015fcinsel mi?&#8221; vb gibi sorular\u0131 asla sormay\u0131n. Bu yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z dedikoduya giriyor ve birisinin cinsel y\u00f6nelimi hakk\u0131nda dedikodu yapmak \u00e7ok \u00e7irkin bir durumdur.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/cdn.hexjam.com\/editorial_service\/bases\/images\/000\/011\/432\/xlarge\/Untitled-1.jpg?1455793845\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011finizi de kabul edin<\/b><\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn bu uyar\u0131lar\u0131 yap\u0131yoruz ama elbette cinsel y\u00f6nelim konusunda ki\u015finin beyan\u0131 esast\u0131r. Bir ki\u015fi kendi a\u011fz\u0131yla e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klamadan, ne g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olursan\u0131z olun, ne duymu\u015f olursan\u0131z olun o ki\u015finin e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda kesin yarg\u0131ya varamazs\u0131n\u0131z. T\u00fcm i\u015faretler bu ki\u015finin e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor da olabilir ama yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015f da olabilirsiniz. Bu olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 da her zaman hesaba kat\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E peki ben ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m? derseniz&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey!<\/p>\n<p>Tekrar yazal\u0131m: Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey!<\/p>\n<p>Kendinizi LGBT bireyler konusunda do\u011fru bilgilendirmek d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yapabilece\u011finiz hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok. Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz en \u00f6nemli \u015fey, o haz\u0131r oldu\u011funda ve size a\u00e7\u0131lmak istedi\u011finde onun yan\u0131nda olman\u0131z. Onu dinlemeniz ve anlaman\u0131z ona verebilece\u011finiz en b\u00fcy\u00fck destektir.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/i.huffpost.com\/gen\/1275437\/images\/o-GAY-BEST-FRIEND-facebook.jpg\" width=\"1536\" height=\"1239\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u015f arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, mahalle arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ya da \u00e7ocukluk arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z&#8230; Onun e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcpheleniyorsan\u0131z ne yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z? E\u011fer \u00e7evrenizde e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcphelendi\u011finiz arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z varsa bu \u00f6nerilerimizi mutlaka dikkate al\u0131n. \u00d6nce LGBT bireyler hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinin, zihninizi a\u00e7\u0131n&#8230; LGBT bireylerle ilgili \u00f6n yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z olabilir. &#8220;Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n e\u015fcinsel oldu\u011fundan \u015f\u00fcpheleniyorsan\u0131z&#8221; ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015funa atmad\u0131k. Sizin gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen ve \u00f6n yarg\u0131s\u0131 olabilecek ki\u015fileri &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":35430,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[720],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35429","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-escinselyasam"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35429","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35429"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35429\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35431,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35429\/revisions\/35431"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35430"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35429"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35429"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.gzone.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35429"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}